Fink, Apache, SSL and DB

I have Apache with SSL installed using Fink. Every time I try to upgrade to a new release via ‘fink update-all’ Fink gives me an error about conflicts with the installed DB library and the new one it wants to install. This is because Fink picks the wrong upgrade package - the non-SSL one rather than the SSL version which I am using. This is easy to fix - just ‘fink install apache-ssl...’ by hand. But I keep forgetting - so here it is so that Google can remind me next time.